Step 1: Aquamarine. Find the Flow, then Dive In and Follow it. Let the Flow of Current Events carry you along, rather than fighting against a tide that's already in motion. Practice moving with the momentum of the Flow of time, schedules, and synchronicities to align yourself In Step with a Relationship Partner. This will require Coordination and Flexibility on your part, a willingness to Bend to the other person's needs, while asking routinely for your own desires and needs to be fulfilled, as well. Once you feel you are In Step with your Relationship Partner, proceed to Step 2.
Step 2: Rose Pink. Be Emotionally Mature and Flaunt your Very Best Assets and Attributes. This is an important part of having a successful Attraction Factor: Placing emphasis on the positives in order to minimize and outshine the Negatives. Everyone has Negative aspects about themselves, and while these are important to address, they also point to what a person is working to overcome along his or her Life Journey and Personal Path of Self-Development and Soul Growth. What have you Overcome, and how? What Skills, Gifts, and Talents are you most proud of? What do you receive compliments on, the most? What activities do you feel good about that yield the most productive gain? Once you have your Reputation and Persona refined to flaunt only your best, proceed to Step 3.
Step 3: Violet. Trust any Signs and Messages you receive during this phase during times when you and your prospective Relationship Partner are apart. You will be working on your Self during this phase, making sure you develop into a Whole Being rather than someone who believes they are missing an Other Half. Your Life and Responsibilities need tending to with your full, devoted attention.
Step 4: Forest Green. Stay Committed to the Process while taking time to look back over everything you have achieved thus far. Longevity means your track record to achievements made in the past, plus goals you have which extend far into the Future. During this step you will recognize and honor the Journey that got you here thus far, while planning for Success today and Success in the coming days. What thus far has been consistently Successful? What has worked, versus what hasn't? Be willing to discard old, worn-out memories, beliefs, and activities which no longer serve a living purpose.
Step 5: Wisteria. Enter the Courtship phase. A Courtship is an informal/formal agreement to seal the pair from outside influences, to see each other exclusively, and to enter a deeper, more serious get-to-know phase with the intention of leading up to Marriage (or other form of formally recognized union). Courtship takes Discipline and a Focused Approach to Partnership Exclusivity; you may find prior Family, Work, and Friendship Obligations fall by the wayside to make room for Relationship needs such as comfort, co-creation, trust bonding, and cultivating familiarity and reliability. It will also be necessary to sustain a certain level of Emotional Closeness not previously experienced such as sharing secrets and the inner contents of one's Heart and Mind. The end goal of the Courtship phase is entirely up to you, and once achieved, you have realized your Highest Success Potential in the realm of Relationship.
~ The Color Oracle
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